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adley.jonat7
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 Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 6:24 pm Post subject: Can anyone help me???? |
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I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane. After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex. She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for 13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused.
How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill have an effect? |
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joybetluck
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I assume you are male and when you say the pill you mean Viagra for you. You need to get a Dr. prescription. I also suggest you take half a dose as Orientals do not need as strong medications as Europeans who are larger in size. There are side effects you should beware of.
I suggest you talk to your partner and doctor.
Knowing Japanese might help.
No sex, thank you ... we're Japanese
According to the condom maker, Japanese couples have sex 45 times a year, well below the global average of 103 times.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/mar/30/japan |
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Edwina Lee
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Adley,
You need to seek help from a marriage councillor, and to invite help from friends who understand you and who are not afraid to tell you what they really think when invited to do so.
From what you've said, and from the way you said it, I feel that the sharing of life interests & communication skills are the heart of your relationship decline. |
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Fruityboy
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Sounds like a closet homosexual mate. I suggest a coming out is in order  |
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Jeff Minter
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| Write to Dr Miriam |
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Lan Zeird
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fest64
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Location: wiltshire england earth space and without a compass!
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hi,  "Being very underweight, severely obese, or malnourished can cause a low libido due to disruptions in normal hormonal levels" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido
 May be you should try some tai chi or dao yin
doing this makes me feel much better in many feilds in life!
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