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McDouglath2



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 10:07 pm    Post subject: Looking for Marriage? Reply with quote

Hi
My name is David. I am a good looking British citizen boy with Iranian origin. I am studding engineering in London. I am 26 year old. I am looking for a Chinese wife. If you are interested! Or If you ever know a nice Chinese girl in England looking to marry a British man to extend her stay in England Please introduce you/her to me by my email!
I may also send you my photos.
Please email to: McDouglath@yahoo.co.uk


Looking forward to read from you.

Thanks
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Jeff Minter



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 9:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote



Out of curiosity ladies (whatever race), what are you thinking when you see posts like this? Do any of you seriously consider them - say you were lonely and haven't been in a relationship for ages, would you be more inclined to follow up on offers like the above?

And it must irk you lassies to be always considered the 'trophy wife'; the one you can depend on, is always there when you come home after a hard day's work with a nice meal for hubby. The more strong willed, self sufficient females there are, the better, if only to shatter these perverts' illusions.
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chunxueping



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Jeff,

Women get approaches in all forms. After a few years you tend to treat the lot with contempt. Funnily a friend did say that I would make someone an ideal "Trophy Wife." It could be fun in a way.

I have encountered Caucasians who quite coldly take the approach that (they claim) to have had White, Black, Filipinos, Japanese and they would like to try a Chinese to complete the set. I accept that in the UK we may be a bit of a novelty act but still find it incredible that some do not see this “Bingo Card” approach to relationships at all insulting but maybe I’m a bit “old fashioned.”

It is mainly a matter of availability. In UK there are so many “unattached” Caucasians and you can wait forever to meet an “unattached” Chinese male. In China the opposite is obviously true. I have developed a strategy based on knowing what is not going to work so not waste time with certain people. To my deep shame this is largely based on ethnicity and religion so whilst always willing to be pleasantly surprised this seems kinder to everyone. I just do not enjoy being lectured on race, politics or religion.

My biggest irritation is thinking that someone is interested in me only to find that all he wants is a recommendation of characters for a tattoo. This really gets on my nerves and their stupidity is unbelievable. I always refuse outright to help, tell them they are stupid and give them a link to a website which shows the consequences of this. You know the sort of thing, the guy with “This is an ugly boy” written down his arm (he is too), the girl with “Supermarket” written across her belly. That usually puts them off.

http://www.cantonese.sheik.co.uk/essays/tattoos.htm

CX-P
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Fruityboy



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PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 11:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I’m after a good Iranian wife who likes doing cooking and cleaning and is obedient in the sack and panders to racial stereotypes, any takers? Shocked
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Edwina Lee



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PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 8:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I watched a programme about Iran's transexuals. It is 2nd only to Thailand !

Transexuals are rejected in society, so many of them make their living as temporary wives. Every time they have a new client, they have another temporary wedding.

This is Sharia to do so.
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siu mai



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 12:16 pm    Post subject: Re: Looking for Marriage? Reply with quote

McDouglath2 wrote:
Hi
My name is David. I am a good looking British citizen boy with Iranian origin. I am studding engineering in London. I am 26 year old. I am looking for a Chinese wife. If you are interested! Or If you ever know a nice Chinese girl in England looking to marry a British man to extend her stay in England Please introduce you/her to me by my email!
I may also send you my photos.
Please email to: McDouglath@yahoo.co.uk


Looking forward to read from you.

Thanks


What kind of nonsense is this!??????!!!????!!??

This guy is preying on chinese women who are vulnerable e.g. where david said "If you ever know a nice Chinese girl in England looking to marry a British man to extend her stay in England Please introduce you/her to me by my email"

Seriously, this sort of stuff needs to be removed from this forum. What happened to the forum keeping its members safe from harm and not poached like a hunted animal.

Sort it out admin seriously.
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Fruityboy



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 12:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pfft some mainlanders probably would marry for the passport in all honesty, then leave him once they've rinsed him dry! He is desperate though...
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Edwina Lee



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Or may be this guy is trying to live out a fantasy of the Iranian version of Midnight Cowboy (remember Dustin Hoffman & Robert Redford?), and earn a few bucks to support college at the same time Very Happy
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chunxueping



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 10:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aiya, you lot spoil my cunning plan! I been dating him. He is 90 year old millionaire with bad cough and he is all mine!

Now he see my plan and I lose Sugar-daddy!
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Edwina Lee



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 7:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aiya, how could you Xue Ping.

But if you've given up, may be you wouldn't mine if I give that a go?

Are you sure he's an old man and with £90.0 million available to give away to the wife? Some of these million/billionaires give it all to their dogs and cats you know.
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Fruityboy



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 10:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well maybe I can be a 'midnight cowboy' to pay for the snip so that said 90 year old billionaire falls for my mainland charms? Twisted Evil
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chunxueping



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You lot owe me. He was tofu in my hands until you give the game away!

Now I have to go back on the streets. Sad
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Fruityboy



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 2:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There there I can always let you sleep in the garden shed I'll inherit Very Happy
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chunxueping



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You want me to entertain my customers in a shed? What kinda p*mp are you? Moi wants hotel room!
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quietman



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you expect to be paid by any chance to help extend the Chinese lady's stay in the UK, David ? Then get rid of her as soon as she gets the marriage certificate.
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