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mayling03
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
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 Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2003 2:05 pm Post subject: Is looking for a chinese boyfriend hard? |
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I find that I can only connect to Chinese guys. I have been with all three sorts. The one wo came from Hong Kong to study in England was nice enough, except for he moved far and so I thought, I would not bother, big mistake, I keep telling myself. Second, BBC, he was so small minded-always wanting 'number 1', always talking about money, buying Gucci, LV etc. Two words 'Love Sick'.
The third, the immigrant, who came to England from the age of 10, study hard, and hanging about with the triards. Attitude to drinking: the more the better.
Is anyone else like me, meet one, fall for one due to the lack of chinese guys out there? |
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OceanLee
Joined: 27 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 10:31 am Post subject: |
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Hmmmm. Well you might have been out with all three types of Chinese people in England, but that is still far from all types of chinese guys. For instance, a lot of first generation imigrants eventually ended up working in the chinese food business (fast food takeaway, restaurants) and had nothing to do with the triads.
Then, not all visitors from Hong kong will be fantastic, there is still a money orientated culture over there. Personalities exist regardless of culture and country.
And not all BBC's are money and fashion orientated (see above). Although thinking about it, a good percentage of the BBC's I know seem to be, including my own bl**dy sister! But there are also plenty of others who are as down to earth as the next man, such as all my cousins and me in my generation. Different personalities exist all over the place, and though they are affected by culture, peers and location, I don't think you can really segregate these clearly from the core of the being. |
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eye_candy1870
Joined: 08 May 2003
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| Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2003 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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mayling,
there are tons of geeky sad wannabe HK guys out there. Just go to london chinatown cafes or trainer shops in covenant garden and you will see these muppets with their dyed hair...
take your pick love...LOL |
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GundamRX78
Joined: 25 Jan 2004
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Location: London
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| Posted: Sun Jan 25, 2004 9:12 pm Post subject: It is very hard to make friend |
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It is also hard for me to find girlfriend in here, too few chinese people, and all of them from different background, it is very hard you to find someone that is really match with you... so I decide go back to Hong Kong
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I love Hong Kong |
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softhands
Joined: 27 Feb 2004
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Location: London
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| Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2004 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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| is it that hard to meet CHinese in London ?manchester? Scores of us around |
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| Posted: Mon Mar 01, 2004 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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there is an article saying that nowadays both women and men are geting marry lately,,,,
even me myself is still single ,,,
may be they are not confide themself ..... since lots spliting up,,,,,
| softhands wrote: | | is it that hard to meet CHinese in London ?manchester? Scores of us around |
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