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666
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Edwina Lee
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fatfei
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| Posted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:25 pm Post subject: Who gives a S*** |
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As another replier said you sound insecure and need to ask yourself some questions.
I am white i have a Chinese girl friend and couldn't give a crap who thinks what not that i think they do anyway.
If people want to be so pathetic as to care about two ppl they dont even know dating then its them who has the problem. |
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Edwina Lee
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FatFei,
Can I assume you are talking to me?
Well, don't worry, I'm not talking about you and your girl friend. I have no idea who you are.
Sleep well. |
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Kong
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| Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 2:29 am Post subject: |
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| Its racial hatred!! |
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Alpha Male
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| Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2010 12:37 pm Post subject: Re: Well |
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| mimaru77 wrote: | Im a mixed race girl (black and white)
and im attracted to chinese guys. theres nothing wrong with mixed race relationships in my opinion. why does race have to matter - your meant to be seeing the person for who they are. |
Agreed, and I see a lot of ugly Chinese men who don't do much for their looks and think career is what attracts girls. |
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Edwina Lee
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I don't see many ugly chinese men around at all.
Modern life of having a career and student debt is very time and energy consuming, so modern men & women find it difficult to meet up.
Don't despair, there are other ways to meet. Get your life sorted then keep dating. Internet date finders and speed dating are all very good nowadays. |
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Alpha Male
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Well I don't many Chinese are in High Wycombie Edwin!
So if you're an ugly Chinese dude then make yourself more attractive in other ways such as develop an attractive personality and open your mind up more. |
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Edwina Lee
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I have never met anyone quite like you Alpha Male. 
You really have an extraordinary thick skin.
Don't give up, someone just like yourself might turn up just for you one day, you just never know.
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Alpha Male
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| Edwina Lee wrote: | I have never met anyone quite like you Alpha Male.
You really have an extraordinary thick skin.
Don't give up, someone just like yourself might turn up just for you one day, you just never know.
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Edwin if you don't mind doing my washing and cleaning I'm all yours.
Don't fight it baby you know you want it!!! |
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being u
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| Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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Hello everyone,
I don't understand why some of you chinese guys think like that towards your own people. We are all the same on the inside, just different skin colour!
Thankfully my 3 brothers, yes 3! they all don't mind me being with an english man and plus I am engaged to my partner.
All relationships have it's ups and down whatever your ethnic group inc mixed relationships!!
My first boyfriend is Dutch born chinese and had a year long distance relationship, turned out to be a liar and a cheat! from this relationship I found chinese men a bit dull and boring with not much personality (no offence to my brothers and cousins).
Chinese men can be just as aggressive as english. My cousin also a BBC had almost experience this,she said her chinese boyfriend was aggressive towards her and his own mother. She agreed with me that chinese guys are dull and boring but now she's also with a english guy for 3 years and happy whether her parents like it or not.
My fiance who I known for 6 years and together for 4 1/2 years is a caring, kind and loving person and his definitely not the type to expect me to do everything around the house, we share all household duties.
What I have to say is, no one can make you do things that make you unhappy, you got to make youself happy first. I don't do things my mother's way because it'll drive me into depression!
I am quite pleased to see chinese girl with their english boyfriends.
This is the 21st century and people should STOP sticking into other people business where they don't belong!!!!! these kind of people make me angry.
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Adee
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wow, this topic is still going?
being u, I never really known many Chinese men that are aggressive and certainly not towards their mothers. In fact most of them wouldn't even dare to disobey their mothers, but you'll always get some rebellious guys.
About Chinese men being dull, I think I can understand what you mean to an extent. My theory on this is largely to do with the way that Chinese men were brought up, especially if they have traditionalist parents. Traditional Chinese values emphasis on conformism may have constrain our development as individuals and thus we're unable to express ourselves more freely, where as Western society regards individualism much more highly and this gives people with conformist mindset a great disadvantage. Certainly when it comes to attracting females.
However it's still a generalisation stems from my hypothesis and in real life it's a lot more complex than that. There are plenty of Chinese guys out there I know aren't really like that and not surprisingly they're the ones who are more popular with the girls. |
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Kong
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Its going on because its problem. If they dont solve the problem half of the chinese men will have to turn GAY. And, we know a lot of white people and particular white men are laughing. There no use disrepecting chinese men to force them to date white women. The main problem has to do with the trinity. It all has to do with christianity. The fact that (sinful chinese women non-christian) are allowed to marry out to white christian males have perpertuated acceptable widespread racist stereotyping towards chinese males on TV and media. This as we well we know is manipulation, it have caused large scale revulsion with white women . However, Non-christian males are not allowed to marry christian females. It is 2000 year strategy to get rid of the non-christian. While the muslims have there own strategies. The christian are using a self-fulfilling prophecy and there using chinese women to prove that the trinity is real. That is why there is so much negative stereotyping against chinese males and positive sexual types for chinese women. Christianity is trying get rid of your males with the 'middle christian name'. If you don't breed you have nothing to say. They also think that all chinese people are sinful that need to get rid off. It has to do with breeding. Now chinese males have a double edge sword to deal with racism, religioius hatred, and now its seems more males than ever. If you are fatgow or daogow might be new to you. And, I have women rejected me because of the trinity. They think they are doing it for jesus christ. There is a big difference between chinese women falling in love naturally and fairly then a whole religion perscuting non-christian males. By the way you are not doing it for interracial love. Ur doing it because your a sinner and they hate ur sinful race.
BY THE WAY, IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE TRINITY YOU ARE NOT THAT INTELLIGENT.
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Edwina Lee
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Kong,
That is entertaining fiction!
But I do get your gripe  |
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Kong
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I'm serious I'm not the religious sort I'm the scientist type. I know alot of chinese male come on here and rant and dont understand why this is happening. Now I'm telling u something sophisicated. I bet its news to you that because I dont think you religious. Let me write it out for you! Are you religious Or what background are you from? A lot of hindus and christians are already familar with it ,but ,except of course for nonchristians. What religious background are you from? If u understand the art of war there is always a strategy. They think non-christian women particular chinese women are small-minded, selfish, sinful and, of course the entire chinese population is stupid and full of sinners. God is punishing the chinese population and if you understand sinning, basically it means that WE DESERVE THE WRATH OF GOD OR GOD IS PUNISHING THE EVILDOERS(CHINESE). Thats is why there is no 'cheers' or 'yippees' for interracial love. What good is interracial love if christianity is calling you a Lucifer/chinese/women/sinner and the white/christian/man the good one in the relationship.
One basic assumption is that a lot of chinese people are not christian. Now read the bible and try to understand as best you can. "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the (Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,)(this is trinity). The 'name' is the middle christian name. Only christian males are allowed to marry non-christian women. Generally speaking that is a lot of chinese women with white men and basically very few chinese male with white women. In another word, positive sexual stereotypes for chinese women and negative stereotypes for chinese males. Now examine history and you will see what I mean
IF YOU DON'T TRUST ME ASK A HINDU. THEY TELL YOU ITS RELIGIOUS HATRED AND THEY ARE MANIPULATIVNG US CHINESE. THEY ALSO SAY THAT CHINESE WOMEN ARE STUPID, STUPID, STUPID, STUPID, STUPID! ASK ME AND I TELL YOU
WHY!
BY THE WAY, IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE TRINITY YOU ARE NOT THAT INTELLIGENT.
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