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chunxueping
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| I divorce and not do me any good. He not having any money, wants to live of me. |
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Edwina Lee
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| Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 11:00 pm Post subject: |
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| Are you legally divorced now? |
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chunxueping
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| Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 11:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Oh yes, mutual consent, no kids, is easy. |
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siu mai
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| Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 11:53 am Post subject: |
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| szeto-chow wrote: | | Chinese men are just too short for me! |
LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!! |
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Edwina Lee
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:58 am Post subject: |
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| szeto-chow wrote: | | Chinese men are just too short for me! |
Szeto,
Taller men are attractive, but they also have lower life expectancy. Very tall men tends to suffer from various forms of heart/circulatory problems.
My former boss has a wife much taller than himself. He is about 5'4".
Edwina xx |
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Kong
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Location: Sheffield
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Hey what is going on!! I thought it was about mix relationships!
White Guys can go out with Chinese women or they let them!!
White women will not go out with chinese men = is this blatant racism, most chinese women dont think so!!
Statistically it Suck!! Look around, seriously do u think every chinese guy is a pussy and dont have the motivation to get a women!! How blatant does it have to be, before any chinese women notice or even care!! Its like there race gives them the advantage in this country!! Racism still exist against chinese men, even though chinese women recieve less of it!!
I think i need to convice u in person!! Its blatant RACISM!!! Thats why there so many of these couples out there!! What does tradition have 2 do with any thing, Seriously!!! |
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Jeff Minter
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 8:50 am Post subject: |
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| I find it hard to believe that there are no massage parlours within your vicinity, Kong. Just grab 3 wads twenties and you won't be posting here ever again. |
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Edwina Lee
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:42 am Post subject: |
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Jeff,
You are advocating the lay down and get walked over strategy. |
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Jeff Minter
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 1:00 pm Post subject: |
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| But listen to the guy, he's beyond desperation. |
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Edwina Lee
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject: |
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Hey Jeff,
Most punters are married men looking for extra-marital thrills. A guy like Kong will be serviced at twice the going price and half the time. After that, he'll be an AIDS hazard and he'll feel a lot worse afterwards.
I advocate Buddism for Kong.  |
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chunxueping
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
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Location: Surrey, UK
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| Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 4:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Kong wrote: | White Guys can go out with Chinese women or they let them!!
White women will not go out with chinese men = is this blatant racism, most chinese women dont think so!!
I think i need to convice u in person!! Its blatant RACISM!!! Thats why there so many of these couples out there!! What does tradition have 2 do with any thing, Seriously!!! |
There is probably 30 Million white women and maybe 200,000 Chinese women in this country. Surely someone fancy you?
Just cos someone not want to go out with you dont make them racist. Women respond positively to someone they like and think gonna treat them decently. Racism rarely come into to it although stereotyping might. You get badly treated by one ethnic type or even appearance then you think twice about someone similar. I have my prejudices but race isnt one of them. |
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Kong
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I do agree with what you say!! Depends how you define racism!! If its includes stereotyping and labelling a particular races for something there not, then in this case chinese men suffer it the most. We get labelled more so than our women, but chinese man labelling is so much more negative!!
Do random english women call u a 'ching chong' for no reason
Do random english men think you are a idiot!!
Do random english men call u a 'ching chong' for being a chinese women!!
I think you get the idea!!
Chinese women are more acceptable in the eyes of the english!!
I never going to change anyone mind here!! Its a problem because its blatantly obvious. When do you have to notice before you do something about it, and if we know it exist what action can we take!! Its not about my relationship status. Its a issue that im trying to get across. Take notice of nature and you will see that there is something inherently wrong going on!! Im not guessing, u can already see it around you, u already know its happening! To denie it, would be accepting that there is no problem! The problem would continue to exist!
I just notice something you lot live in south!! U do know i from Nick Grithfin city!! BNP leader!! Might be irrelevant though, lol!! |
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chunxueping
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| Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Kong wrote: |
Do random english women call u a 'ching chong' for no reason
Do random english men think you are a idiot!!
Do random english men call u a 'ching chong' for being a chinese women!!
I think you get the idea!!
Chinese women are more acceptable in the eyes of the english!! |
My apology for selective edit your quote. There are just a couple of things I want to comment on.
I never heard any white call a Chinese person a "Ching Chong" that would be very disrespectful and I would be offended. I have heard many Chinese people call white people "Gwailo" and "Da BiZi" even to their face if they think they not understand. Unfortunately a lot do understand these days.
Yes Chinese women are more acceptable in the eyes of the English because men want to have sex with us. Women are always treated more kindly by men than men treat each other for that very reason.
If you treat any woman of any race with kindness and respect and good humour there is no reason why she should not like you. However, to pursue a victim culture that every white is against you and racist is not helpful.
I am sorry I live in the South, I could not afford the rail ticket north but I dont think it makes a great difference where you live. Maybe you might like to try south? |
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Jeff Minter
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| Bloody Southerners |
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mikeuk
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My wife is Chinese and I'm English. Both of us are in our 20's and met whilst I was living in China (we now both live in the UK ). Having lived in both countries it is interesting to compare how our relationship is perceived by strangers in both countries:
In China, a lot of passers-by would first stare at my wife then at me, or mention us as they walked pass. In the beginning I got a little annoyed as I thought it was really rude and on occasion I'd say something like "Ni xiang pai zhao pian ma?" - "You want to take a photo?", but in the end I realized that most people were looking more out of curiosity than resentment.
However, there is a definite stereotype in some parts of China that a Chinese girl only dates/marries a foreigner because of his wealth. |
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