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Fruityboy
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pensggs
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 Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 3:47 pm Post subject: Biting the Bullet |
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Is this called the 'biting the bullet'. Certainily, gives new meaning to this ancient 'idiom'.
Are the modern BBC or Chinese male, capable of 'biting the bullet' when their male ego gets 'slighted and wounded' by their wives/partners being more successful in achieving their potential. To-date, I have yet to encounter one that is capable of being graceful and happy with the fact or biting 'this bullet'/
The primeval instinct of man in this 'new brave world' caused many family tragedies, when their partners are killed because the 'weaker partner/wife' became a 'reminder' of their 'wounded male ego' or 'comparative lack of success'.
??? Another provocative shot???? There, there, they are always plenty of the 'primeval human females' around if your pockets are well-lined to soothe your wounded ego ( if the cap fits) |
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Fruityboy
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| Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 5:57 pm Post subject: Re: Biting the Bullet |
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| pensggs wrote: | Is this called the 'biting the bullet'. Certainily, gives new meaning to this ancient 'idiom'.
Are the modern BBC or Chinese male, capable of 'biting the bullet' when their male ego gets 'slighted and wounded' by their wives/partners being more successful in achieving their potential. To-date, I have yet to encounter one that is capable of being graceful and happy with the fact or biting 'this bullet'/
The primeval instinct of man in this 'new brave world' caused many family tragedies, when their partners are killed because the 'weaker partner/wife' became a 'reminder' of their 'wounded male ego' or 'comparative lack of success'.
??? Another provocative shot???? There, there, they are always plenty of the 'primeval human females' around if your pockets are well-lined to soothe your wounded ego ( if the cap fits) |
A rather random digression there and perhaps deserves it's own thread? |
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zombiehellmonkey
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| Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 9:06 am Post subject: Re: Biting the Bullet |
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| Fruityboy wrote: | | pensggs wrote: | Is this called the 'biting the bullet'. Certainily, gives new meaning to this ancient 'idiom'.
Are the modern BBC or Chinese male, capable of 'biting the bullet' when their male ego gets 'slighted and wounded' by their wives/partners being more successful in achieving their potential. To-date, I have yet to encounter one that is capable of being graceful and happy with the fact or biting 'this bullet'/
The primeval instinct of man in this 'new brave world' caused many family tragedies, when their partners are killed because the 'weaker partner/wife' became a 'reminder' of their 'wounded male ego' or 'comparative lack of success'.
??? Another provocative shot???? There, there, they are always plenty of the 'primeval human females' around if your pockets are well-lined to soothe your wounded ego ( if the cap fits) |
A rather random digression there and perhaps deserves it's own thread? |
Fruityboy, some women can't get laid, or just don't get enough sex... rather than accept responsibility for their own failings, this fustration leads them to blame the male population, and as a result they are constantly on the offensive. I suggest that they find consolation and relief with female sex toys, rather than resort to unprovoked hostilities...
Just my two cents.  |
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pensggs
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| Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 12:42 pm Post subject: |
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Dynasties were lost, political careers were tainted and destroyed; when the 'power merchants' allowed their 'base instincts' to govern their life.
Zombie,
Sex is essential for the reproduction of life and the reason for survival of the human species.
Love is the 'ultimate passion' which make 'Sex' special.
When 'Sex' is denegraded to a 'Recreation Activity' and a 'Commodity' then human life and 'Love' is debased. Even animals do not debase sex.
Human beings are capable of achieving the 'higher plane of life' and 'Love & Sex' should be in company together; for any real pleasure.
However, if you are your namesake 'Zombie', the already 'living dead'; then I do not blame you for your 'limited' conclusion.
How can the already dead appreciate Life and Love? |
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zombiehellmonkey
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| Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:56 pm Post subject: |
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| pensggs wrote: |
However, if you are your namesake 'Zombie', the already 'living dead'; then I do not blame you for your 'limited' conclusion.
How can the already dead appreciate Life and Love? |
Ah, I love how you judge me by a nickname that a bully gave me at school when I was younger...
Love the irony!
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pensggs
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| Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 2:55 pm Post subject: Loving the bully |
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I was called the 'yellow peril'; that does not mean I should adopt a bully's perception of 'Me'.
That bully that used that word became a 'good colleague' whose wife visited and helped me as a equal 'professional'.
In my personal and professional life, I make it my mission never to allow myself to pass a 'victim' and not do something about it.
At times, these were to my disadvantage, careerwise and personally, when the bullies attention were diverted to me.
At 19, I was subjected to corporate bullying for over 12 months for standing up for a weaker colleague who was being bullied because she was Chinese and 'PASSIVE'. I passed my examinations because the bullying allowed me to learn all there was to learn to pass the examinations.
When I started my first business, I was being bullied by fellow Chinese because of my lack of insight in the business I first started. It became the bedrock of my achievement today.
When I took over a 'White Preserve Business', racist bullies visited me and subjected me to a 'Common Assault'. They were prosecuted and then one of the bully 'an ex professional boxer' subjected me to twelve months of silent phone calls at all hours of the night and early morning.
In my professioanl life, corporate bullying when you are different is part and parcel of life. One of the corporate bullies helped me to finance my present business. Others allowed me to develop the professional skills I have today.
Today, I can honestly said at my 'Great Age' that from each of these bullying incidents, I had turned them into positive results and gain for myself.
Never allowing myself to walk away from a bullying incident meant that I have to expand energy to help those 'being victimised'. The present person i am helping have been taking on a corporate bully for the last two years.
It is my way of ensuring that they do not become 'VICTIMS' throughout LIFE. I transfer to them my skill set against bullies, personal or corporate.
We only become a 'victim' when the 'victim complex' is a comfortable suit/dress. The 'Yes, I can' means I would NOT allow myself to hide from the pain of being 'victimised' and used these incidents as 'Excuses' throughout LIFE.
So, zombie, we allow bullies to exist. Bullies cannot assist without our acceptance.
'Sticks and stones.........................'
The 'irony' is great when it is a catalyst to bring about change. |
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