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Friday, 30 November 2007

“Example has more followers than reason.” Christian Nestell Bovee, American author and lawyer (1820-1904)

Having said we need more British Chinese role models, who are the trailblazers out there? I went online and found a list of prominent people of Chinese ancestry listed on Wikipedia, and set out to make contact with them to ask them their views on role models. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_British_Chinese_people

Many of the people listed in Wikipedia were born overseas and settled in the UK as adults. I wanted to track down those who were born in the UK or came to UK as children, so effectively grew up as BBCs, because they’re my reference group when I say we need more home-grown Chinese role models. I asked some of my extended family and BBC friends whether they’d heard of any of the four people I profile below and there was low recognition of their names.

Have you heard of them?

These four people aren’t movie stars and you won’t find them in your favourite soap opera or rock band, but they do work in areas or pursue activities, which haven’t been explored by many Chinese. They are breaking new grounds and breaking old stereotypes. Perhaps, they’ve been lucky in their careers, in the right place at the right time, but one thing is for sure they’re making their voices heard in mainstream society. We need to get to know their names and be inspired by them, so we can believe what’s possible.

Valerie ChangValerie Chang

For over 20 years, Valerie Chang has worked as a creator, producer, arts manager and consultant specialising in the visual arts, heritage sector, Chinese arts and culture and cross-cultural art festivals. She established her own Arts Consultancy in 1999. http://www.valeriechang.com/

Valerie was born in Kampala, the capital of Uganda in East Africa. Her parents ran a successful photography business there and Valerie and her siblings went to an English school. The family moved to Birmingham, England in the mid 1960s and Valerie went to secondary school in the Midlands and it was here she began her studies in Fine Art & Design. She went on to get her first degree in Fine Art and Design from Bradford College of Arts followed by a postgraduate Certificate in Art Education from Brighton Polytechnic and later, after studying and working in the cultural arts sector in London for a number of years, she received her MA in Museum and Gallery Management from City University.

She has curated international and national exhibitions at the South London Gallery and Pitzhanger Manor & Gallery, and has led or partnered with others experts on major projects for commercial and public art galleries, museums, local authorities, educational institutions and private sector. For example, in 2006, she was commissioned to promote and market the “China: The Three Emperors” exhibition for the Royal Academy of Arts in London with a view to engage the Chinese community UK-wide.

Her latest contract is at the Horniman Museum where she’s developing a Chinese community arts project that will respond to HM Chinese collection of textiles 19thCentury. She continues to campaign for the truth about what really happened to her brother, Richard Chang, a Senior IT Business Analyst for Abbey National Bank, who is said to have jumped to his death from the 5thfloor of the Bank’s Headquarters on 13th July, 2004. http://www.justice4richard.co.uk/

Kevin FongKevin Fong

In May 2004, Dr. Kevin Fong featured in a list of “The 100 Most Influential Men in Britain Under 40” compiled by the men’s magazine “Esquire.” As the UK’s foremost expert in space medicine, having worked with NASA and the European Space Agency, he’s very much in demand in an advisory capacity in his field and on television shows, such as “Superhuman” for Channel 4. And all of this is on top of his work as Specialist Registrar in Anaesthesia and Intensive Care Medicine at University College London Hospitals and Honorary Lecturer in Physiology at University College London.

Kevin was born at the start of the 1970s and spent his boyhood in South Harrow in North West London. His parents grew up in Mauritius (his father is Hakka Chinese from Guangdong and his mother is of Chinese and French descent) and they came to the UK in the early 1960s. As far as Kevin can tell, they were the second Chinese family to move into the area: the first owned the local Chinese takeaway. Kevin and his brother were amongst the first Chinese children to go to their schools.

Looking back at his parents’ achievements, Kevin recounts that his father was a frustrated scientist who completed his higher education through a correspondence course while working as a backroom clerk at a large company. His parents both worked at low grades in the Civil Service. Kevin credits his parents’ endeavours over the years as the spur, which gave him and his brother the right encouragement to go forward with their goals.

He’s definitely made the most of his educational opportunities by getting degree in Astrophysics and Medicine, and fulfils his long-standing interest in human space exploration and medicine through his research (on the body’s reaction to long duration space missions) at the Centre for Aviation, Space and Extreme environment medicine (CASE) at University College London, which he co-founded in 2000.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2007/jan/06/spaceexploration.uknews

http://www.channel4.com/science/microsites/S/superhuman/experts/kfong/kfong.html

Dalton Leong and the Prince of WalesDalton Leong

Dalton Leong says he’s achieved his “dream job” as the Chief Executive of The Shooting Star Children’s Hospice, a charity raising funds to run the much-needed children’s hospice, Shooting Star House, for the free care and support of children and young people living with a life-limiting condition and their families. After a career in the private sector (banking and financial services) in which he reached a senior position at the head office, he moved into the Not-for-Profit Sector. He’s not sure whether his mother was as enthusiastic about his move as she thought banking was a safe route for a successful BBC man.

Dalton’s family originates from Guangdong in Southern China. Typical of the times, his grandparents moved to another country, South Africa, for what turned out to be a very different life. His father, a butcher by trade, set up a shop in London, which his mother helped run, when his parents emigrated from South Africa to England in the 1960s. Their motive for moving to England was the “improved westernised” education their three children would receive. Dalton was born a year after his parents settled in London.

Like many other first-generation-born BBCs, Dalton was only one of a few Chinese boys at his schools and that was including his brothers. His parents worked long hours at their shop to make it a viable concern, but tragically his father died just two weeks after Dalton’s 11thbirthday. His mother continued to run the shop for two years after his father’s death, but the odds were stacked against her, a Chinese woman in her 40s – a single parent of four teenage children – owning a butcher’s shop in the mid-1970s. During those years, Dalton became worldly-wise and, always, felt different to his English friends, not least because his life after school each day consisted of going home to scrub the bloody wooden butcher blocks and sweep the sawdust from the floor.

On a daily basis in his job, Dalton meets with families of children who are not expected to reach adulthood and those experiences put many things into perspective for him. The Shooting Star Children’s Hospice receives no statutory funding. Hence, it was a huge achievement when London’s newest children’s hospice, Shooting Star House, near Hampton Court Palace, was officially opened on 21st February, 2006 by TRH The Prince of Wales and The Duchess of Cornwall – a culmination of a 10-year commitment from the people who work for the charity and the volunteers and patrons who raised the money for the building. The Who’s Who of patrons of the Shooting Star Trust includes Samantha Bond, Joan Collins OBE, Richard E. Grant and Sir Trevor MacDonald, OBE. Their support, along with many others, help to secure the £2.5 million a year needed to maintain the care service provisions. Dalton’s aim is to keep going with fundraising for the Trust so none of the momentum is lost.

http://www.shootingstar.org.uk/

Helen TseHelen Tse

Do you know the name of the first published British-born Chinese author? That would be Helen Tse whose book “Sweet Mandarin” was published in the UK by Ebury Press on 1stFebruary, 2007. Helen set out to write a cookery book, but her publishers had other ideas. The result, a family autobiography in which Helen tells the story of three generations of remarkable women by following the journey of her grandmother, Lily Kwok, from 1920s rural China to present-day Manchester and in between there’s murder, gambling addiction and many set-backs, all tied together by the love of food.

Helen was born and bred in Manchester and grew up above a “chippy” in the backs streets of Manchester in the late 1970s and 1980s. She studied law at Cambridge University before moving into finance in London and Hong Kong. In November of 2004, Helen and her two sisters, Lisa and Janet Tse, opened their modern Pan Asian restaurant “Sweet Mandarin” in Manchester’s bohemian Northern Quarter. The restaurant has gained a fast-growing reputation and a celebrity following through its fresh, contemporary feel and modern Chinese cuisine. As the third generation of women restaurateurs, Helen, Lisa and Janet Tse, three twenty-somethings, have brought the family full circle, regaining much that was gambled away when Lily Kwok lost her restaurant and money to the Manchester casinos.

Writing her family’s story has led to a ripple effect of interest for Helen and her sisters. “Sweet Mandarin” (the book) is now sold in 33 countries and being adapted for a major BBC television dramatization to be shown in 40 countries in August, 2008. It’s, also, being adopted as a text book in schools in the UK, Hong Kong and China as part of the curriculum for children aged 13-16 years.

http://www.sweetmandarin.com/index.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/manchester/content/articles/2007/02/01/ 010207_sweet_mandarin_feature.shtml

Questions AND Answers

I put the following questions to Valerie, Kevin, Dalton and Helen, and under each question, I give a flavour of their answers:

Who were your role models growing up (both Chinese and non-Chinese) and how did they inspire you?

Valerie: “Artists; I didn’t have any Chinese ones at the time. My passion was art.”

Kevin: “I had few Chinese role models; I was aware of Bruce Lee, but my role models were astronauts. It was the Apollo era – a late summer’s night in 1975 and my parents woke me up to watch a US Apollo module docking with a Russian Soyuz spacecraft and that was the start of my interest in science.”

Dalton: He says of his father who died just after Dalton turned 11, “He has been a true inspiration on my life – the words that spring to mind when I think of him are ‘hard work’ and ‘integrity.’ Anyone that can go through life with these values at the heart of all they do can go far.” And of his mother, he salutes her courage, “A remarkable achievement from a truly inspirational and popular person. Now, in retirement, it’s sometimes difficult to get time with my Mum as the phone doesn’t often leave her ear, she has so many friends.”

Helen: “My grandma and my mother. They are strong, independent women who really sacrificed a lot for us and gave us a chance in the world. I was, also, a Ken Hom fan – loved anything to do with cooking and food and he was the only representation of Chinese people that is even today prominent in the media.”

As British-born or British-raised Chinese in our late 20s, 30s and 40s, why don't we shout out to the world about our successes? What more can we do within our own community and society at large to create a more visible image?

Valerie: “There are not enough of us; some are too passive and others not interested. We need more people getting their stories heard in the media, through articles, documentaries and TVU programmes.”

Dalton: “I have never met a Chinese person who has crowed about their successes. I regard my career to have been successful to date, but I’m sure that, at times, I could have been far more assertive in developing my aspirations.”

Helen thinks the lack of representation of Chinese in the media is due to two trends: firstly, the dispersion and integration of Chinese people into society and, therefore, being dealt with like anyone else in the UK. Additionally, the community is divided according to generations -- the older generation who keep a low profile, don’t talk of things outside the family and just quietly get on with it, and her generation who have gone into employment outside the catering trade e.g. the City and law firms and there’s no benefit in telling the world about successes because how people are measured is based on work performance and not media coverage. Secondly, society sees the Chinese as a hidden minority and, through talking with journalists because of her book, she remarks, “They (journalists) have said how hard it is to find a Chinese contributor, so anything that is slightly difficult to tap into is passed over.” Her answer to a more visible image, she says, is “Our community and society should be encouraged to support more entrepreneurs who set up their own businesses and, therefore, created an identity for themselves. Also, many awards are creating a special award for people in the workplace, and we should go for the awards. I believe it’s crucial that the British Chinese have a voice in Britain.”

What can we do as ordinary British Chinese to be role models for the next generation and to the wider society?

Valerie: “Speak out; get into mainstream arts; be a positive role model; integrate and, also, join political campaigns.”

Kevin: “I don’t think of myself as a role model. I’ve just been lucky in my career. As a BBC in my generation, we were not given credit for our upbringing; we may have been the only Chinese at school and we got on with it and succeeded through hard work.”

Dalton: “So often in the past, television has portrayed Chinese people as comical, e.g., Kato in ‘The Pink Panther’ films. There’s a need for more people who can, to raise the profile of success in wider society. This can be achieved by looking for opportunities to highlight our lives in articles such as this one.”

Helen: “Education is the key. My sister, Lisa Tse, is a great role model through her educational programmes; rolling out the Sweet Mandarin master class for children across the UK, teaching them how to cook Chinese food and through that learning about Chinese culture and language. She is, also, a spokesperson for the international campaign, ‘Make Your Mark.’ Align yourself with what you excel at, even if it’s nothing to do with being Chinese. To do the very best at what you do will be evidence to all around you that you are a role model, whatever your colour or ethnicity.” http://www.makeyourmark.org.uk/

(Valerie & Helen) There is a perception that British Chinese females are more visible as role models than British Chinese males. Do you agree or do we have many “glass ceilings” to break through, not least to dispel the image of us as “Suzy Wong/Geisha” types or submissive China dolls?

Valerie: “It’s getting better for British Chinese females, but there aren’t enough of us. We need stronger networks, conferences and media exposure. There’s a glass ceiling for males and females and the women shout louder. I do. I’ve recently completed my postgraduate certificate course in cultural leadership at City University and I’m getting involved politically and in campaigning for my brother, Richard Chang.”

Helen: “A successful woman (whether Chinese or not) is a visible role model; we’re more visible than men having had to deal with emancipation, equal right, glass ceilings at work, etc. I think the stereotypical perception of the Chinese is based on the Chinese family running the takeaway. Essentially, when we set up our restaurant, Sweet Mandarin, our number one intention was to raise the quality and image of Chinese food, restaurant business and way of doing business.”

(Valerie & Helen) What can be done by late 20s, 30s and 40s-something British Chinese women to show a positive and influential image to the wider society?

Valerie: “Hold a conference and get rich businesses to sponsor it; set up training workshops and networks and get funding bodies to support this.”

Helen: “Anyone who wants to write their story with a view to getting it published and add to the history of the Chinese in Britain are welcome to contact me. I want to hear more British Chinese voices. My book, “Sweet Mandarin,” will tell my family’s story, which is like a thread in the tapestry of the history of the world.”

(Kevin & Dalton) There is a perception of a lack of British Chinese male role models. Why are British Chinese men still seen as martial arts experts, geeks or triad members, instead of influential people in their fields? What can be done to reverse the stereotypes by late 20s, 30s and 40s-something British Chinese Men?

Kevin: “Science has been a large part of my success. I’m not sure what can be done to reverse the stereotypes. As a BBC and being different, no doubt things have gone against me and no doubt things have gone my way. It’s complex, our differences are our strengths as well as our weaknesses.”

Dalton: “Recently, I’ve volunteered to join a Special Interest Group for Black and Minority Ethnic leaders in the Not-for-Profit Sector as ‘Diversity at the Top’ of charitable organizations is under the spotlight. The opportunity to raise the profile must be taken. You don’t get a second chance to create a good first impression.”

What encouraging messages would you like to say to future generations of British Chinese?

Valerie: “Speak out, get involved in public life, join networks and groups, don’t get isolated and lose touch with your culture.”

Kevin: “Many of the issues I faced will not be faced by my son (2) and probably his children. We, as British Chinese, will get more confident as the generations progress.”

Dalton: “Be yourself, be proud of your heritage and remain an individual with independent thinking.”

Helen: “Be proud of your story. Ask your parents what brought them to the UK and learn about your roots. Be proud of being Chinese, being brought up in the UK (and in your family business) and be thankful for your future.”

“Do not worry about holding high position; worry rather about playing your proper role.” Confucius

Valerie, Kevin, Dalton and Helen were not born with any special privileges nor were they born into any special circumstances. They’re not about flash and celebrity, but stand for hard work, dreams and determination, and show us what can be achieved as BBCs in today’s Britain. You can see in their stories a bit of you and me. They had aspirations and goals, and worked hard to fulfil them and, now, their efforts are being recognized.

For me, their stories are important because we need BBC role models at any age, not just for young people. Helen Tse reaffirms my viewpoint as she says, “It’s really important to see one’s peers do well; it inspires and helps other BBCs to know there is a path that is being trodden down.” I see BBCs doing great things in their lives and in their communities and I’m inspired. We have to believe that no matter what society tells us or how we are treated in a competitive world; our time is now to make a noise.

My generation is the “stopgap generation” (as Kevin Fong puts it) between the first-generation immigrants and those born in the UK in the 1980s. For many of us, our parents needed our help in the family business. We were, often, the first Chinese at our schools; the first to deal with the taunts in the playground and the first to get into university. We paved the way for our younger siblings and subsequent generations of BBCs. We kept our heads down and got on with it, which usually meant getting a steady job with good pay. Yes, there’s a side of the Chinese character, which is unassuming and we want to keep it that way, but, maybe, we need to care beyond the steady income to be a little bolder in our lives; more visible to the larger community and get our voices heard in different avenues as advocated by Valerie, Dalton and Helen.

Should we be doing more as the “stopgap generation”? Not everyone can be in the spotlight, but I think we have a part to play in being role models to those around us. We set an example in our daily lives and we underestimate how our simple steps are steps towards the visible future of confident British Chinese people. Perhaps, we should think of ourselves as ambassadors and exercising our voices in any small ways (being political with a small “p” as Valerie Chang said) – committees at work and in our local areas; through hobbies and education, etc. – will help to inspire subsequent generations and help create positive perceptions of BBCs in the wider society.

Like Helen Tse, I believe we need BBC role models who are prominent in their professions, not necessarily to court the media but because excelling in our fields will set an example to others around us. For those of us who are more established, perhaps the key is a willingness to help other BBCs; to invest in the future of the British Chinese community and raise our profile as Lisa Tse is doing through her educational programmes and Helen Tse’s encouragement of up and coming British Chinese writers.

The Future

When I think of the younger generation of BBCs (those in their 20s and younger), I’m optimistic they’ll find a place in the mainstream, do well for themselves and serve to make further and deeper inroads for other BBCs. I think some young people do want to break into the media (newspapers, magazines, the arts and television) and there are entrepreneurs of the future out there with their innovative ideas. I detect this present generation as beginning to see their potential and believe they are trailblazers who can shine. However, change doesn’t happen overnight; sometimes it takes several generations.

I, also, suspect that many of the younger generation have a very cynical attitude. After all, more British Chinese are educated and have professional jobs, but are still in the lower echelons of work, perhaps, because of a subtle discrimination of Chinese people in society. But, maybe, this is a discussion for another time. All I know is that it’s a competitive world out there, even more so than when I was growing up. There’s a general disillusionment among young people, not just BBCs. Yet, my innate optimism says that we can overcome adverse circumstances (look at our parents’ example.) Being different can work both ways, as Kevin Fong said, so rejection can be used positively as a catalyst for going further. Each day as you “fight” for yourself to achieve your dreams, know that you have an invisible cheering squad in your corner. The more we support and encourage each other, the more we succeed as a British Chinese community.

Similar experiences? Let us know by posting your comments below. You can also email Susan directly here: This email address is being protected from spam bots, you need Javascript enabled to view it .

 
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Rosaline Posted 15:24 on 1 December 2007
Hi, I read your Making Waves accounts. Interesting. While I agree with most of your views and that of others, I feel that our role models shift and change at different points in our lives, and it is good to be organic in looking for inspiration. The models that we choose reflect very much on the person making the choice and his or her circumstances at the time of picking the particular model to draw energy from.
Susan S. Cheung Posted 14:17 on 3 December 2007
Dear Rosaline,

I do agree with your views that our role models shift at different stages in our lives, and this is a fluid process depending on person and circumstances.

My point in both parts of my article is that it's good to see British Chinese excel in their fields and recognized in wider society so they can be an inspiration or role models to others, who see the path being trodden down.

My hope in sharing the profiles of these four people was to say, hey we are out there and doing great stuff, and that is one more step towards dispelling our low visibility.

Susan
oksauce Posted 10:05 on 4 December 2007
Hello Susan
I don't have a role model at the moment, but if I do have one it is likely to be a family dog such as a golden retriever. When young they are full of energy, fun and curiosity. As they mature they are more stoics, upright, patient, selfless, protective and a trustworthy companion. The only draw back is that like us they need to be fed and fuss over.
Although I never had a dog, I feel confident my dog would share the doggy biscuits with me.
If I am so keen on a dog as a role model would I become one? I am on my way already. Has anyone ever thought how many scriptures are written in the presence of a dog? If you are still not sure read GOD backwards!
Susan S. Cheung Posted 13:58 on 4 December 2007
Dear Oksauce,

I'm not a dog owner, but friends who have dogs think they are wonderful loyal companions and full of fun and friendship, and all those traits you said. I guess they can be role models. Perhaps, unlike humans, people like animals because there is nothing hidden and no subterfuge!
PYL Posted 14:00 on 4 December 2007
Well done, very interesting part 2 article. And I can't wait to read Helen's book now, it's been on my book wish list for too long now.
Susan S. Cheung Posted 17:42 on 4 December 2007
Dear PYL,

I'm glad you found my article to be of interest. The Christmas break is a good time to have some down time, chill out and read Helen Tse's book, or else they make good Christmas presents!
Sang - BBC Role Models Posted 23:14 on 4 December 2007
Excellent piece as always Susan. I really enjoy reading about other people's successes, particularly those of minorities. One can't help but get inspired! I've learned so much about BBCs through your articles. Geez, I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for those BBCs in the 60's, 70's. I can't help but reminisce about the taunting and teasing of my own childhood and how hard it was for me. It must be a walk-in-the-park compared to the first-gen BBCs. It's great to know that the 'Asian' community in general, not just BBCs, can produce such great contributors to society.
Susan S. Cheung - BBC Role Models Posted 1:42 on 5 December 2007
Dear Sang,

Thank you for your appreciation of my articles and your comments. It was was my intention to inspire others by telling the stories of the successes of peers.

I remember much that was harsh about my upbringing in the UK and my experience as the only Chinese child at school in the 1970s; not knowing how to speak English, being seen as different and an object for bullying. Like many of my peers who paved the way, we got through it and it made us strong, and drove us to excel, so we turned a hard, negative situation into positive outcomes.

I think it's remarkable how resilient Chinese/Asian people are; how we can adapt to circumstances and come through with success. I think the experiences of those who have had to adapt to other cultures around the world are similar and we can learn and be inspired by such stories, no matter where we live.
Alice Chun - BBC Role models Posted 0:23 on 5 December 2007
Dear Susan,

Excellent article, I enjoy much. Two of these people I have come across before but not met. I found their stories really interesting.

It is good to see interesting people who have been able to contribute to UK society.

It must have been much more difficult in the early days to come to the UK. These days nobody give us a second glance which is much more comfortable situation.

I look forward to more article.

Alice Chun
Susan S. Cheung Posted 1:57 on 5 December 2007
Dear Alice,

Thank you for your kind words and your comments. I wanted to raise the profile and perceptions of Chinese successes in different areas so we don't think we are confined to certain categories.

I am glad that it is easier to integrate into UK society now, but on the other hand we have to turn around the perception that we are the "invisible" minority.

Look out for my next two articles later on in December and please let other people know about my column to generate wide interest. Thank you.
Rosaline - Stimulating Posted 13:16 on 5 December 2007
Dear Susan,

After reading the four brilliant profiles , I met Valerie at the Dimsum Christmas party and am meeting her again. I hope to be able to write a theatre script and stage a play to bring awareness and further expose the campaign4richard.

As before, your article have spurred me on. Thanks.
Susan S. Cheung - Stimulating Posted 19:57 on 5 December 2007
Dear Rosaline,

Wonderful news that you have connected with Valerie Chang and, perhaps, can use your talents on a project to bring awareness for the campaign4richard. I'm glad my article served as a catalyst for you.

Part of the reason I write is to generate awareness/discussion for the topics I find interesting as a British Chinese person and, hopefully, it may stimulate others to ask questions and to find out more.
Lili - In the fashion world Posted 17:50 on 5 December 2007
Hi Susan,
I'd like to mention Susie Bubble, the fashion blogger, for channelling her raw talent and humour into a fantastic blog that has made her somewhat of a fashionista celebrity! She's bold and unique, which is such a refreshing change from the masses of BBCs who are so desperately conformist.
Susan S. Cheung - In the fashion world Posted 20:09 on 5 December 2007
Hi Lili,

Thank you for bringing Susie Bubble to mine and others' attention. I will certainly check out her blog.

That makes me think, who else is out there being bold, unique and non-conformist? Sometimes, it's down to word of mouth. So ask your friends and contacts; give them the link to my column, and let me know of other BBCs out there, who are doing different things with their lives.

Thanks.
ESEA Michiko Posted 20:43 on 5 December 2007
Can these four people be interviewed in the media apart from the website? They would be more prominent in any tele documentaries or interviews. More people regardless of race will recognise the BBCs when they can show what they can do in the UK.

There should be support for media coverage for the young and old who have contributed to the UK. BBC children from schools and adults from all walks of life. This would bring more BBCs to the limelight. BBCs should not be promoting among the BBCs. They should be promoting them outside of this box.
Susan S. Cheung Posted 22:03 on 5 December 2007
Dear ESEA Michiko,

These four people have been interviewed by mainstream media as they are making waves in their fields.

I have highlighted them here so others, who are British Chinese or interested in all things British Chinese, can be inspired by their stories. I believe we have to celebrate within our own community as well as society at large so we don't remain isolationalist or elitist and to increase name recognition within our community, and not least to increase our confidence as a minority. I welcome any opportunity, be it within a community website or the wider media, to talk about the wonderful successes of our peers so everyone can find out and feel proud.
monkey - good article Posted 17:53 on 12 December 2007
I enjoyed reading the article, I wonder if any of the above mentioned speak any chinese?
Thinking about the above readings i think numerous of BBCs unlike their parents childhood, feel a deeper sense of otherness and an unconnectedness of a "home" which is why many feel insecure and yearn for role models. Though I am tempted to do some amateur psychoanalysing, I leave here and say that all BBCs because of the unique upbringing and circumstances will have difficult issues to deal with, its a lifelong thing and blame your parents!. Fortunately the outcome can be positive :)
Susan S. Cheung Posted 15:50 on 14 December 2007
Dear monkey,

I'm glad your enjoyed my article. Thank you for your thoughts. The people I interviewed have varying command of Chinese, as with most BBCs, who go from speaking no Cantonese, Hakka or Mandarin to quite or almost fluent, depending on how old they were when they came over to the UK or if they were born in the UK how strict their parents where about speaking it at home or if they went continuously to Chinese school. For example, my husband speaks Hakka very well and Cantonese passerbly as when he young he wouldn't get his dinner unless he spoke Chinese at home, infront of his parents and relatives and among his siblings, and to this day he speaks Hakka to his siblings over the phone or when we get together.

I agree that many BBCs feel a sense of "otherness" as you said and, perhaps, that's why we search for our identity from a young age, and I think you're right, we all have different and difficult issues to deal with. I think most of us work it out and use our uniqueness positively. I have found as I have gotten older, I have more empathy for my parents' generation and I am thankful they survived a tough environment and made a good life for us, even though it's thousands of miles away from our cultural homeland.
monkey - comments Posted 18:40 on 14 December 2007
thanks for your response what I enjoy most about your writings, is that you write as if your heart is on your sleeve and at moments you hit some profound points that feels all too real, I empathise and identified a lot of what you express, although my attitude and may resolve differ slightly. I think many BBCs have a difficult childhood because we grow up in a social environment where one is (not always) singled out as culturally different. I remember as the only Chinese in the classroom every time the subject of anything Chinese came up, it s was OMG all the focus is on me, fortunately my teacher (not all teachers) was PC savvy. Perhaps ones upbringing does after all influence adulthood in that we over compensate and rectify what we have lost in our younger years. Most ironically, I found listening to other BBCs is that we unconsciously become like parents- in that we became too concerned with materialistic status at the expense of ignoring the emotional impact of such decisions. Look forward in your next written piece?
Susan S. Cheung - comments Posted 1:01 on 17 December 2007
Dear monkey,

Thank you for your feedback on my writing. I suppose I write on a gut level, sometimes after I've reflected on a subject, but most often I react instinctively to a topic or I read something that triggers some emotion in me. My hope is that you feel those emotions through my words, you can follow my perspective on things, whether you agree or not, and sometimes I hope some issues resonate with you. Whether or not I knew it back then, but when I started my column I wanted to write as if I'm having a conversation or dialogue with you. There are so many interesting people in the world and many I will never meet first hand, but at least we can have a conversation in cyberspace.

When I was growing up, I often felt so isolated and wanted to share my thoughts - and I wanted to scream, "Am I the only one to feel like this?" It's wonderful today how people can belong to a community via websites like DimSum and social networks like facebook, myspace, etc.

Yes, I too remember at school come Chinese New Year, it would be like you're the expert and some teachers would expect you to know all the cultural and historical context to CNY, forgetting that you grew up in the UK and only know as much as your parents have told you or you have asked them.

Do you know Maslow's hierarchy of need? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs

I think the materialism you see comes from the fact that, even as we are second or third generations, we are still caught up in amassing some of our basic needs, such as home, health, safety, friendship, intimacy, family, self-esteem and identity. I think many BBCs do compensate for what they lacked in their upbringing, be that making money because they remember being very poor or being outwardly affectionate because it wasn't the older generations' way to hug and kiss them.

I think the decisions we make are emotional; certainly, they are for me, but are we really bad at expressing such emotions; they feel too raw or painful and we don't want to deal with them? I don't know. Even as second or third generations, is there something holding us back emotionally?
valerie chang - British Chinese profile Posted 14:28 on 19 April 2008
I was pleased to read the responses about about British Chinese being more visible. Actively working in the cultural heritage sector, if anyone would like to know more, my ext project is at the Horniman Museum, Sunday 25th May with a big launch. My interest has been to work with a British Chinese artist and engagement with the Chinese communities to create a site specific installation. Please do check this out.
BBC's should be more vocal and not shy away from their success. Too many times I hear from the sector, that the Chinese are too invisible. So if you have something to shout about come out and be proud.
Susan S. Cheung - British Chinese profile Posted 2:39 on 4 May 2008
Valerie,

Good luck with the exhibition at the Horniman Museum. I hope you get lots of support from the public, as well as the British Chinese community.

Regards,

Susan
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